What makes a Good Friend?

Dearest Ashley,

When you confided in Mummy that you were sad when someone instigated your good friend in school to hit you. Mummy was very disturbed by the incident too. I felt that he is not fit to be your good friend as he chose to listen to bad advice instead of standing by you. However, you told me that you know he is a true friend as he is sensitive. I didn't quite understand but I respect your feelings.

As you learned in Adam Khoo camp, we are constantly surrounded by good and bad friends. We are influenced by our friends. So, what makes a good friend? True friendship can start instantly but takes time to build. Here are some qualities you find in good friends:

1. A good friend is someone you can trust and trust you

2. A good friend cares about you

3. A good friend sticks with you in good times and bad

4. A good friend accepts you for who you are
Remembered the part the two boys discovered their good friend is learning ballet in "Before I was awesome" last night? They accepted their friend for who he is and affirmed him that they are still his good friends even though he may wear his tutu someday. That's acceptance.

5. A good friend is supportive of you and your goals
If your friends continue to tease you that singing and dancing on stage is sissy, then they are not supportive of your goal to be a singer. A good friend shares your dream and supports you all the way.

6. A good friend is attentive and listening

7. A good friend is fun and interesting

Friends come and go. True friends stay by your side always.

Lots of Hugs and Kisses,
Mum